COMS Communication Styles

COMS Communication Styles can improve the way your team interacts. Through a simple framework and facilitator-led workshop, you’ll learn how different approaches shape conversations, reduce conflict, and strengthen collaboration.

What is COMS?

Every team communicates, but not every team communicates well.

COMS Communication Styles is a dynamic, research-backed tool that reveals the how and why behind the way people connect.

In just eight intentional questions, your team unlocks powerful insights into their natural style, gaining the clarity needed to build stronger relationships, reduce conflict, and accelerate results.

COMS captures four distinct styles that show up in every workplace:

  • Commanding: Bold, decisive, and laser-focused on results.
  • Outgoing: Enthusiastic, persuasive, and inspiring to others.
  • Measured: Steady, thoughtful, and grounded in harmony.
  • Systematic: Analytical, precise, and detail-driven for accuracy.

Each style is valuable. COMS helps your team recognize, respect, and leverage them all.

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Build a Common Language for Your Team

Imagine a workplace where people truly understand each other.

COMS gives your team a common language for communication, simple, memorable, and actionable. With this shared framework, individuals recognize their strengths, understand differences, and adapt with ease.

The result? Fewer misunderstandings, stronger collaboration, and a team that’s aligned and moving forward together.

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Great content is only made better by great facilitators

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As an Award-Winning Facilitator and the Owner and Founder of Positive Impact, Will empowers people around the world to lead their best life by blending the art of coaching, integrating mindfulness principles with skills learned from over a decade’s experience with one of the top-three best-known brands globally. The result is a meaningful vision and a gratifying journey. Read more about Will’s journey from Coca-Cola to Positive Impact below.

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Lindsay was recently awarded the Top Entrepreneur Coach by the Coach Foundation. She is a passionate entrepreneur, guide, and coach. She brings her experience as a director and divisional head, along with an international coaching certification to help entrepreneurs and business leaders achieve the strategic growth, scale and success they strive for. The focus is on building a highly strategic plan, finance model and leadership team to support this growth.

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Bringing over a decade of leadership and development experience ranging from improv stages to executive offices, Michael has worked with over 50,000 people across North America in supporting their own personal and professional development.

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Jason is a TEDx speaker, author, certified Life and Corporate Coach, counsellor, and hypnotherapist. With training in Suicide Intervention (ASIST), NLP, MBSR, MBCT, psychology, and peer support, Jason tailors his approach to meet each client’s unique needs. Driven by a passion for building more cohesive teams, he focuses on emotional intelligence, effective communication, and self-restoration—the triad of success.

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The Research Behind COMS

Grounded in the proven Big Five personality model developed by Paul Costa and Robert McCrae, COMS translates decades of psychological research into a fresh, practical tool your team can apply immediately. We’ve distilled the science into an easy-to-use framework that makes sense in the real world of deadlines, meetings, and team dynamics.

How COMS Works in Practice

The process is quick, interactive, and impactful. Team members complete a short assessment, then see their results mapped on the COMS grid, a simple, visual way to understand where they stand.

Through an engaging workshop, participants discover how different styles interact, practice strategies to flex their approach, and leave with tools to communicate more effectively in every situation.

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Benefits of Using COMS

  • Create instant clarity around team communication dynamics.
  • Reduce conflict by turning potential friction into mutual understanding.
  • Boost collaboration with a framework everyone can easily use.
  • Build adaptability by helping people flex their style when it matters most.
  • Unlock performance by leveraging the unique strengths of every communicator.
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COMS Communication Styles FAQs

What is COMS Communication Styles?

COMS is a communication framework that reveals how people naturally connect and share information. Through eight simple questions, your team sees where each person fits on the COMS grid. This visual makes it easier to understand style preferences and how they affect collaboration. Our facilitators guide you through the process, turning insight into practical skills you can use every day.

How is COMS different from other assessments?

Many assessments label traits but stop short of showing how they play out in real conversations. COMS is built specifically to focus on communication in workplace settings. It combines research with interactive facilitation, so you don’t just get a score—you practice applying the framework with your team. This ensures the learning is memorable, relevant, and directly tied to how you work together.

What are the four COMS styles?

COMS identifies four distinct approaches:

  • Commanding: decisive and focused on results.
  • Outgoing: persuasive and motivational.
  • Measured: steady and relationship-oriented.
  • Systematic: analytical and detail-driven.

How does the COMS workshop run?

The session starts with each person completing the short assessment. Results are mapped on the grid, creating a shared picture of team dynamics. We then guide participants through exercises that highlight differences and encourage adaptation. Workshops are interactive, so your team can practice new strategies in a safe environment.

Can COMS help address team conflict?

Yes. Many conflicts are the result of clashing styles rather than intention. COMS provides a neutral language that makes those differences easier to discuss. Teams often discover that past tension was based on expectations, not capability. By reframing differences as strengths, participants learn to reduce friction and build trust.

Is COMS only for leaders?

COMS works at every level of an organization. Front-line groups benefit from improved collaboration, while leadership teams gain tools to manage and adapt across styles. We recommend bringing entire teams through the process so everyone shares the same framework. This creates consistency and makes it easier to sustain results.

How long does a COMS workshop take?

Most workshops last between 90 minutes and three hours. The assessment itself takes less than 10 minutes to complete. Our facilitators tailor the depth of exploration to fit your schedule and objectives. Sessions can be stand-alone or part of a broader development program.

What outcomes can you expect from a COMS session?

A COMS session equips your team with a shared language for style differences and practical tools for daily communication. Participants leave with greater clarity, fewer misunderstandings, and improved collaboration across roles and departments. The framework encourages ongoing dialogue and helps teams navigate challenges with more adaptability, leading to stronger cohesion and long-term effectiveness.